When I watch the red carpets of my favorite awards shows, I often wonder if they were trying to look their best or just stand out to get attention. Our society doesn’t always reward those who play it safe and decide on a classic look, instead they give airtime to the jaw-dropping-what-were-they-thinking looks. Are you watching the oscars this Sunday? And more importantly, in your life, are you standing out or fading into the background?


